Christmas Star of Hope

 

We often hear, or speak about this thing called “a Christmas miracle”. We know and say that Christmas is the time for miracles, a time for hope and belief. And after this year, I bet we all could do with a double dose of that. This year has definitely taken it’s toll on all of us, some more than others, but all of us, none the less. After a year like this, after all the darkness and evil we have seen, after all the hurt we have dealt with, some of us could be tempted to give up hope. Tempted to stop believing in miracles. It would be easier, right?

This year, in 2020, the year of horror…amidst all the chaos, battles, anger, heartbreak and loss, we saw something happen that has not happened for over 2,000 years: the Christmas Star.

It looked different to all. For some it was dimmed by surroundings or the overpowering city lights. For others it was obstructed by clouds. Yet still for some others it shone brightly. Whatever it looked like to you, dim, obstructed, bright, or just underwhelming, not what you thought or wished it would be…non of us can deny that it was there. It still stood in the sky, shining its light down on us. A symbol of hope. God is still there. He still sees, and He is still in control and working, whether we see it the way we desire or not.

It was a type of Christmas miracle. Perhaps not as glorious or eye popping as we wanted, but a miracle, non the less. Imagine it: the Christmas Star, having not appeared for 2,000 years, shone in the sky in the year 2020…a year many of us have hated and wished would come to an end! Christmas IS a time for miracles. But why is that? Why is Christmas always seen as a time for the impossible, for things out of the ordinary, happy endings or for hope? Perhaps it’s because of the first Christmas miracle to ever take place years ago…

Over 2,000 years ago, in a year much like this one, full of fear, unrest, loss and hopelessness…another Christmas Star shone down on the earth. Down on a sleepy little town in the darkness. Down on a group of outcast shepherds, gathered around a feed trough. Down on livestock, huddled together in a cold stable. Down on a young mother, holding her newborn son. Every baby is a miracle…but there was something even more special about THIS baby. This baby was born as the savior of the world: Jesus Christ. The very first Christmas miracle.

That is why Christmas is called a time for hope, love and miracles. Not because it is really magical. Not because it holds more power than any other holiday. Not because the rest of the year is not important or can’t embody these things. But because during this time we celebrate a miracle. A God who came down to earth in the most unexpected way, in the form of a helpless baby, to live among men, to give up all and die for them. The greatest of kings, born in the most humble of places.

This Christmas, as we look at an uncertain future, as we tighten our belts or look at less presents under the tree or less family gathered around us…remember that first Christmas night over 2,000 years ago. Jesus came to earth as a baby, born of virgin, in a town that had no room for Him and a world that didn’t want Him. He came to bring light to a darkened world, hope to a hopeless time, life to a dying people.

Because of that first Christmas Star, that first Christmas miracle, we can have hope today. We can believe in miracles. Even in the darkest of times, even in the worst years, even if it seems obstructed…hope still shines. Because our hope lies not the things or people around us, not in our circumstances, but in our Savior. The One who was born this day, and died so that we could have life forever with Him. So that we could have hope…hope in a dark world full of trouble.

But do not fear…for HE has overcome the world!

 

Merry Christmas, everyone!

Too Much Moodiness?

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I have noticed that we tend to get irritated way too easily. A hiccup in our plans, rearranging the schedule last minute, the slow driver on the highway, technology that won’t work. Anything that causes us a little inconvenience just gets under our skin and turns our whole mood sour and our day is ruined.

Now, I want to say first off that it’s not wrong to get a little irritated sometimes… because it IS rough when you are stuck behind a really slow driver, or you are trying to get something accomplished and technology is just not working with us. However, we let those inconveniences bother us WAY more than we should. We constantly dwell on them and, instead of taking a deep breath and controlling how we think and look at our situations, we let them control us and our thoughts. Then we have a big mess. πŸ™‚ We ourselves are miserable, and we also make it miserable for those around us. What is inside, what we meditate and dwell on, is eventually going to come out… and no one wants to be around someone who is miserable. They will be miserable, too.

It is impossible in this life to have positive thoughts all the time and never get irritated. We are sinful people living in a sinful world after all; but we don’t have to be in a bad mood ALL the time.Β And we don’t have to transfer that bad mood to others. Here are some helpful tips to try and reduce those moods:

1. Positive Noise

What you let yourself listen to has a great impact on how you behave and what you think about. It is very easy to get annoyed when we are on the road. With construction, crazy drivers and annoyingly long traffic lights, there is a lot that can mess up our day and our plans; and don’t even get me started about when there is a time limit involved!

So plug your ears to all the negative thoughts flying around you and pop in some of your favorite music… or an audio book. You are much less likely to be fuming about the length of the light or the slowness of the cars around you when you are trying to concentrate on the words to your favorite song. It makes time go by much faster. And don’t be afraid to sing along! Hey, when you are sitting in bumper to bumper traffic, roll down your windows and share the joy! πŸ™‚

2. Smell the Roses

Nature is very therapeutic. Have you ever noticed how calming a walk in the park is? A hike through the woods? A swim in the lake? Try taking a walk when things start getting under your skin. Even just walking barefoot in your backyard (this is called grounding) feels so relaxing. All the irritating things we struggle with seem so small in the midst of the beauty in nature.

Try applying or diffusing some of the many soothing and uplifting essential oils. I’m sure you have a favorite smell that just makes everything around you seem brighter.

3. Talk About It

You know, sometimes we just NEED TO RANT; and occasionally that is OK. Keeping our feelings locked up inside is not always a good thing. If we are struggling with frustrations and we keep it tucked away it can easily grow until it eats away at us… or we explode. Neither of those options are good. πŸ™‚ Sometimes talking to your family and friends about things that bother you is a great way to relieve stress. Be careful with your words, you don’t want to drag anyone down or make them desire to run away. After you talk about it, let it go. The more you bring it up the more you are tempted to dwell on those little details. Then it is a very slippery slide to where it consumes your thoughts again.

Pray. God will always listen and He is willing to help you with your struggles. As a side note… it may be thought of as crazy, but talking about things out loud to yourself can help a lot. πŸ˜€

 

Look around you. God gave us an amazing life to live; and it is a shame to waste it by letting the little troubles of the day get under our skin and make us miserable. Trust me, it is not worth it. Besides, we all think it would be wonderful if the people we meet every day would be in good moods for us. How can we expect something from someone else that we are not willing to do ourselves?

So begin with you (and me), and get out there today and start that positive domino effect! Spread the JOY!!

“Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope…”